2017 has flown by! Over the last few days, I’ve been naturally reflective. I’m already pretty reflective and tend to over think, but this reflection has been free-flowing and eye-opening.
When I think about where I was last year around this time, I was deeply depressed, incredibly anxious, unsure about… everything, and unhappy. I started the year off deciding that I was going to be happy. I decided that I was going to do everything I knew how to overcome my issues and become a better me.
Well…
I lost 25 pounds. I got a new job. I increased my savings. I grew my business. I traveled more. I saw my family more than I have a long time. I kept track of weekly positive memories in a memory jar. I started meditating, journaling, and working on mindfulness. Most importantly…
I finally decided what I wanted.
That sounds simple, right? It could be. But, I made it hard. I thought it was selfish to want things for myself that didn’t necessarily positively impact other people. I made a vision board full of great things, but I was very unclear about what I actually wanted. I went through 10.5 months of this year “going with the flow” and that’s not even me. I’m a dreamer. A planner. Going with the flow makes me anxious. I’m the type to plan something that’s supposed to be spontaneous lol. I was afraid of putting what I wanted out into the universe because… what if it came true?
The crazy thing is that I know that if I want something and put it out there, it happens. So, my fear was ridiculous, but I totally get it. It’s magical. The power to get what you want is dope, but it scared me. (Don’t get all weird, y’all. We can all manifest things into our lives and often do it more than we realize.)
I’m choosing to be introverted, nerdy, quiet, reflective, solo traveling, hip hop loving, giving, huge hearted, natural curl rocking, home cooking, football loving, podcast junkie, book and article reading, kinda anxious, kinda silly, super grateful Domi. I got very clear on how I got where I am and where I want to be. I wrote it down. I read it. I looked in the mirror and told myself, “I’m ready for ______.”
I’m ready.
Do you know what you want? The first step is making a decision.